I am 22-year-old girl pursuing my masters in science from a reputed University. I am good in studies, a good looking and an attractive girl (at least my friends and family say so). I feel that many boys of my college are attracted towards me. Some have even proposed to me, but unfortunately I did not like any of them worthy to be my dream man. But recently I have come across a guy about whom I have started falling for. The most striking thing about him is that he is very sober, ever smiling. I have befriended him and found him to be very caring and intelligent. He can perhaps read my mind and understands my needs and sometimes fulfill my desires even before I utter any word. I feel I am in love with him and am getting physically attracted to him. In the course of our friendship and humor, we have, talked, laughed and I have even tried to hold his hand and touch him. He did not mind but I have never noticed any such attraction from his side. He never tried to touch me. I got restless and one day proposed him and tried to become physically intimate with him. Perhaps I was carried away by his charm and unknowingly tried to seduce him. But I was very hurt when he refused to be physically intimate with me. I felt terribly insulted and stopped talking with him. Thereafter he tried to contact me over phone but I never responded. Yesterday I got a message from him, which reads, \"Don't misunderstand me. I am sorry for refusing you and can understand that you are hurt. I am ready for \"whatever\" you ask me to do, as I cannot afford to loose a friend like you. But on one condition, I/we will have to use a proper protection before becoming intimate. Just tell me where and when.\" I am speechless after this. Is he a man or a woman in disguise? Does he really love me or is he trying to insult me even more in a very diplomatic manner? Please help…